Monday, April 26, 2010

Urgent Prayer for Benji


I know it has been a long time since I updated on Benji or his family, but I have tried to update as I feel led. I have honestly meant to give an update before now, and share some of what has been going on, but as you all know my blog process has been "under construction" so to speak.

No time for rambling or catching up at the moment, sadly, as I must cut to the chase. Benji is in Cleveland Clinic having surgery RIGHT NOW to remove MORE infection that just will not clear up and abscesses that will just not seem to go away, and after that the doctor will begin exploratory surgery. The family was told "not to expect good news."

Benji has shared that he has received the call to preach. (I will share more on this later) Benji is trusting in God to take care of him. It may not be how WE would think he needs taking care of, but I KNOW there can be a better life for Benji here on Earth. I believe his time doesn't have to be shortened by his Crohn's because God has ALL power over such things, and God knew this was going to happen long before that first test came back with a negative report. God has had his hand on Benji all along, and we ask for guidance today for the doctors who are operating, for peace and strength for the family and for healing, peace, spiritual, mental, physical strength for Benji to help him through this part of his journey. And please also remember Sweet Sarah, as she had to be left at home with her grandmother and other close family, because she does not do well with having to be separated from her family at times like these, but it was not possible for her to go.

I will update on Benji's condition as soon as I know something. The family is grateful for, and requested, all your prayers.

Wednesday, April 21, 2010

Wordless Wednesday ...mostly...


Welcome to Wordless Wednesday.... where I try to keep it wordless. Ahem.

So what has Dylan all cracked up


and in a tizzy?


Why, Nee Nee's rockin' new do' of course!



Courtesy of Amy (from Eclipse{the shop not the book/movie} NOT my sister Amy... tee hee...) with whom I am VERY pleased.


"Lord, Thank you for keeping Nee Nee's hair from turning purple. Amen."

Thursday, April 15, 2010

For Generations....

For generations, over one hundred plus years, our family has had several traditions. I know we focus mostly on the farming and such in my Papaw Everette's life, but he was something else, too. And so was his daddy, Charlie. And so was MY daddy. Sadly, since my paternal grandpa Benny died at age 66 when my dad was 5, my dad isn't sure if his dad was one or not, and I am not calling his 85 year old first cousin just to find that particular piece of information out right now. Uncle Troy was one. Dylan's grandpa Larry was one. Dylan's dad was one, briefly. And as proud of this heritage as we are, hopefully Dylan will never have to be one. What is this horrific/wondrous thing we are talking about?

A coal miner.

With the recent deaths of the 29 miners at Upper Branch Mine near Whitesville, WV, I have struggled with forming this post. I have wanted to do a post on this before, but just hadn't got it together. But I still feel that it is important.

This is not a "political" post or whatever, really, I just want to enlighten the rest of the world a little about coal mining and all this "clean coal" garbage the government is preaching right now. Trust me, the government has severe ulterior (aka MONEY) motives for all this "Going Green" stuff. Don't get me wrong, YES coal mining could be safer. SHOULD be safer. There was no reason those gas levels should have gotten so high undetected. There is no excuse for some things. In an unreal reality, it has came a LONG way in 100 years. Other jobs should be safer. So should logging. So should oil rigging jobs. So should SIMPLY WALKING DOWN THE CITY STREETS, for crying out loud. EVERYTHING can be safer, better, etc. But don't let the politicians fool you. They are not purely concerned for the environment, or for the people and miners alone, either. "Cleaner Coal and Safer Coal" sounds nice, but what it means is NO coal, NO jobs, NO electricity,and total dependency on foreign countries for things, cause we all know we (Americans) aren't going to windmills and solar panels that cost an absolute fortune just to use MINIMAL appliances, let alone run all the gadgets we use to today. Don't be fooled into believing all this stuff can just magically happen. Like my good friend's shirt proudly states, "Sure you can trust the government. Just ask the Indians."

Like I said, and then I will get off my soap box and on to the pictures, I am NOT AGAINST SAFER MINING. Just the opposite. Just don't believe everything you hear on the news. It isn't the truth. They tell what they want too. I am not saying the "government is out to get us" or whatever. I am not even anti-government AT ALL. We have the potential to have a fabulous government. Have, I say. And YES, those deaths of those miners were tragic and could have been avoided. YES, the mines should be responsible. NO, coal mining shouldn't quit because of it. Disagree with me? That is okay. Are you prepared to quit driving 'just because' thousands of people die every year in car accidents? Are you willing to not fly because planes crash? Of course not. Just proves there is a right way and a wrong way to do everything, and everyone makes mistakes and could/should do things better. Okay, stepping off the box, and going back in time.

My Papaw Everette as a coal miner somewhere in the hills of wild, wonderful West Virginia.



His old mining light, which attached to his hat (not the light in the picture of him, though) that was fueled by carbide, hence the name Carbide Lamp.


The lamp with the hat after Poppy used it for a few years too, hence the "new" stickers.


Close up.


Side view.


Back of the hat, with a "new" Joy sticker.


Dad had to put HIS initials in it because the other men at the mines were always trying to take it or buy it from him cause it was such a great hat.


Dad's picture taken for a mining book. He was a little plumper then, lol, because he had been on a buggy for a few years and hadn't done severely hard labor. But he paid his dues. He has no hair on his knees from all the years crawling the floors of the earth. He has been thrown through the mines until he hit a wall (of coal and rock) when he picked up some live wires in a puddle of water, he can't hear very well. He may have black lung. By the grace of God he didn't lose his life in the many years he spent underground.



This is Dad's hat.


His light, which you filled the battery with water to keep it from burning up (don't ask me how it worked, it makes no sense to me! lol)


His little blue face mask that was meant to help keep coal dust out of his lungs.


Most of that is just dust from the garage, lol.


A picture of all our mining "memorabilia", including Dad's coffee thermos, but minus his bucket (which I couldn't find) that I used to go through every evening when he got home to get the left over goodies out of, in case he didn't finish all his cakes that day!


This used to be perhaps a life or death decision: Union YES or NO. (And don't let the size of the stickers fool you for which side dad was on! LOL) He would never officially tell me, because it went from life threatening to JOB threatening, but let's just say Unions were TOTALLY necessary at ONE POINT in coal mining history, but not anymore. Just saying!


Dad and some of the men he worked with last, getting ready to head up to the mines to go underground.

Unfortunately, I do not have any pictures on my computer of Uncle Troy in the mines, but he surely paid his dues too.

My life, our life, YOUR life, wouldn't have been the same with out men like these.

Wednesday, April 14, 2010

Wordlessfull Wednesday

Okay, Aunt Willie ( and neighbor Amy and anyone else who was wondering ) Just WHERE did Dylan go that he had never been before?

Now, to most people, this will not be very exciting, but to us it is historical.


So where is this?

Well, yeah, the barn. But he has been there plenty. So where else did he go?


Where do these (much sturdier than they look) wooden stairs go?


Why, the hay loft of Papaw's barn, of course.


Being guided by his Uncle Troy, Dylan took his first trip through the barn loft.


Papaw and Granny would have been so proud.


He wasn't scared one bit.


Can't say the same for Susie! She wasn't too thrilled with this idea, even though she knew it was safe.


Okay, so maybe this particular climbing wasn't the smartest thing he could have done.....


or this... (he isn't as close to the edge as it seems. Tricky photography.)


But Little Boy Boy was enjoying himself SO much!


But, as the old saying goes, all good things must come to an end


And Dylan left with promises of coming back.


He even waved bye to his picture snapping Nee Nee.


Can you believe I went up there? Me neither! Only for pictures of Dylan in the loft would I do such a thing! :)

Monday, April 12, 2010

Not Me Monday!


Welcome to Not Me Monday! A chance to tell the world just how ridiculous you really are! Hosted by "A crazy lady I no longer wish to be associated with but hate to delete these posts because they tell stuff I did."

Oh, my dear bloggy friends. How I have not missed you. Oh so bad. I literally cannot wait to get back to some serious bloggy business.

Oh, where to begin.

It was not Dylan who sent his (thankfully stuffed, not plastic) Woody doll flying through the air like Buzz Lightyear and knocked Chelsea in the head, causing him to not get taken out of church for a "spanking" for the first time EVER. Nope, not Dylan.

Chelsea & Breezy did not erupt in giggles when I explained to her what in the world happened, cause all she felt was "thud" then saw Dylan getting whisked away. Me, Sonya & Robert were not barely able to contain our giggles until Grammy had Dylan out the infamous glass doors. (You know the ones.... where you get drug through when you get in trouble in church!)

It was not me and Neighbor Amy who started a new thing for Dylan (to add to the huge list) of things he loves to do that aren't necessarily easy on the adults around him: Pass him back and forth over the fence so he can look at all her kitty cats and doggies. Nope, not me and Neighbor Amy.

It was not Dylan who went somewhere he had never been before the other day, and it will not be my Wordless Wednesday pictures. (Oh, you will be so not excited Aunt Willie!)

It was not my dear sister who had the biggest "duh" moment since my Magnum P.I. moment the other night while baking a Betty Crocker desert. On the back, it gives "Tips from Betty" about how to spice up the recipe and such, and Amy was reading it aloud, knowing FULL WELL it was a Betty Crocker product, and she did not exclaim sarcastically but seriously unknowingly, "Whoever Betty is......"

Mom and I did not nearly die laughing at her. Um, gee.. Betty CROCKER maybe? Duh.

It was not me who stole an egg out of a 3 year old's basket at church last Sunday so Dylan could have one more to hunt. He did not miss out on the little kids hunt and only find two eggs, (don't worry, he got the full deal the day before) so I snuck one of Hannah's when she wasn't looking and hid it for him repeatedly because all he had was green plastic eggs and he didn't seem to notice his numbers really weren't growing. Nope. I would never steal Easter eggs from 3 year old little girls that are even NAMED after me (Hannah Alise - pronounced A-leese) I would never stoop that low. Ahem.

It was not me and my sister who went to the movies Friday night and only seriously argued like ONCE! Can you believe it? This is the girl that has thrown knives at me, pulled my head back WHILE I WAS DRIVING so I couldn't even see, you name it. We did not survive Applebee's AND the Last Song. I am not amazed!

It is not me who is closing down shop and heading for bed, cause I have a FULL day ahead of me tomorrow.

Happy Monday everyone!

Saturday, April 10, 2010

Wednesday, April 7, 2010

Oh, I Forgot Something..





Okay, SERIOUSLY

Okay, this is getting ridiculous. I know all Suddenlink people are not responsible, and the "responders" in our area came out and did their thing like they were supposed to, but guess what. I have not been taking another extended bloggy vacation. You read that right. (And apparently I am severely addicted to the Internet because I am having MAJOR withdrawal.) We have been with out phone and Internet for EVER it seems, yet we still have tv, like last time. (Thank God.) Sooooo, we have had a little "spurt" of Internet and phone this evening, so I thought I would take the chance to pop this up in case we loose signal again (which is what keeps happening) and can't post all I have planned to later.
I plan on perhaps getting a hold of Tina the Suddenlink lady and begging for some help, because at this point my parents are going to "un-bundle" our 3 in 1 Suddenlink deal and go with AT&T for phone and keep Suddenlink for television and Internet (oddly it works when you have phone with AT&T and Internet through Suddenlink, must be the phone line, beats me) and we really do not want to do that, but going for weeks without a phone (not even counting the Internet) and still getting billed for it is getting a bit annoying. Forget the bill part, it is just getting annoying to play "Do we have phone and Internet today?" every stinking day.
So hopefully I will be able to update shortly. If not, Friday evening I will find a wi-fi spot and check in, if all goes as planned.
Miss you, Bloggy friends!